Women are COMPLEX!!! There is no one better to tell you how it is for women than real women. Here is what they say…
J. S. :
I want a man to be inspiring, be a force of loving and present action in the world. Be able to hold my gaze, deeply and see through to my soul. I want a man who understands the workings of the feminine, who deeply honors the cries of my spirit and the intuition that guides me. I want a man to remind me of who I am at my core and hold me compassionately when I forget--reminding me that I never really left myself at all.
I want a man to hold space, to ooze integrity, to see others as their highest selves and their deepest version of their truest calling. I want a man to be present, to be love, to offer a structure that feels nurturing and steeped in wholeness. I want a man to define the world by what is truly the most important.
I want a man to be gentle and sure. I want a man to have a strong grip, literally, that holds me and knows when to apply pressure. I want a man to use his hands to remind me that I am held and okay, at all times. I want a man to be inspired by me, to be intrigued by my inner workings, to ask questions and to notice. I want a man to notice the subtle changes, and to allow me the space to move with them.
C. B:
I want a man who is creative, grounded, spiritual, healthy, and successful.
I want a man who is committed to personal growth and rigorous honesty.
I want a man who is trained and interested in ongoing research, learning, and practice in women's orgasm.
I want a man who loves to travel and plan trips with me.
I want a man who is in the abundance conversation and grateful for his life.
I want a man who is emotionally fluent and has a community of men who support him.
S. B. :
I want a man who can listen to my feelings without trying to fix me or stop me from feeling them. I want a man who will hold me while I cry or witness me while I rage and still love me afterward. I want a man who will take me when I'm resisting sexual pleasure because he knows what's good for me (not just to satisfy his own needs, but to bring me pleasure).
B. B. :
I want a man who shares my passion for ego-transcendence and love of Real God. One who keeps me on track with devotion and knows the perfect Dharma and why at the perfect time to remind me and keep me sane. I want a man who with the first lick of my pussy pushes me over the edge into rolling waves of ecstatic convulsive orgasm- and doesn't stop there. He communicates clearly and is a YES for my pleasure and growth. Yea, that's where it's at. God. Fucking. Communication. Of course I like good personal hygiene as well. :)
A. B. :
I want a man to claim his shadow and light, to know himself with humor, honor and strength. I want his full everything with power, passion, courage, heart and LOVE in the most alive and fuck open me and the world manner.
D:
What I want changes every minute and…I want a confident man who knows how to hold my space, give me freedom to be myself, be adventurous, passionate and creative, and will dare to dominate with desire and passion.
J:
I want to be with a man of integrity and purpose who is committed to profound presence, clear communication and ongoing spiritual evolution in the realms of self, partnership and community. . . and who loves me deeply and opens me to ever unfolding depths.
D. K. :
I want a man who settles for nothing less than the fullness of SHAKTI from me. A man who feels as at home in himself in the face of my storms, as a sailor. I want a man who is unwaveringly committed to AWAKENING. Who leans into edges of "sacred discomfort" and RISK. I want a man who makes me laugh so hard, I pee my pants!!!! I want a man who is committed to going beyond looking good. I want a man who is more committed to being AUTHENTIC than to being "nice. "
I want a man who knows he's fuckin SEXY, and reveres his turn-on. I want a man who delights in my pleasure, turn-on and fullness of BEING. I want a man who LOVES the outdoors! I want a man who is hella handy, and gets off on fixing things. I want a man who pushes me in the shopping cart when we go grocery shopping. I want a man who is COMMITTED to a spiritual practice that deeply connects him to Spirit. I want a man who makes a fuck load of money, doing what he LOVES, and supports me in diving into my passions and purpose without the undertow of cruddy-assed survival.
I want a man who loves to dance with me. I want a man whose nature is PLAY. I want a man who TURNS ME ONNNN!!!! I want my pussy to flood with juice at the thought of making love with him. I want a man I love to serve. I want a man who loves to serve me. I want a man I can GROW with FOREVER. I want a man who I worship as SHIVA.
N. M. :
I want a man who is man enough to be vulnerable with me
I want to be with a man who I can trust, feels solid, and loves his family
I want a man to make me melt in his presence
K. J. :
I want a man to follow through with what he says he wants for himself and for our family, to trust himself, love himself and know that sharing his deepest love is the most healing force of the universe. . .
M. R. :
I want a man who opens me.
I want a man who stands for me, by me, and with me.
I want a man who is powerful, who everyone in a room quiets to listen to.
I want a man who is clear, confident, and in his integrity.
I want a man who knows my body, who takes his time to figure it out, discovering every inch. Every time he is with me he rediscovers me.
I want a man who means what he says, I can feel it when he says it. My whole being cries out "TRUE" and "YES"
I want a man who is solid in himself
I want a man who wants me, fully.
I want a man who knows he can have me, even if it scares him, who owns his desire.
